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Just my opinion…

My personal belief: once a dog, ALWAYS A DOG!!! I’m not saying a man can’t change his ways, but he surely cannot do it on his own. It takes God to bring about that big of a change. A man can have the biggest heart and be the best provider for his family and yet & still not let go of his doggish ways (trust me-I KNOW!). I don’t believe these men set out to hurt their women intentionally. In some cases, they just don’t know how to fight off that lustful spirit which has a hold on them. They’ll place the blame on their woman instead of themselves and then have the audacity to act shocked & appalled once she decides she’s had enough. Once she has reached her limit, there’s no turning back.

๐Ÿ“Self-explanatory, but I’ll elaborate. I pride myself on not being one of those people who need a mate/relationship to validate them. I know plenty of ppl who feel like their life is not complete UNLESS they have a woman/man on their arm (and in their bed). Bump that! You’ve got to establish happiness within yourself FIRST. If you’re unhappy, depressed, etc. while you’re single, then you’ll STILL be the same miserable soul in a relationship. And remember this: Hurt people HURT PEOPLE. If you’re broken & confused, jumping into another bad relationship (or bed-to-bed) isn’t gonna solve your problems. You’ll still carry those same issues (baggage) into the new situation & take the risk of hurting someone else because YOU still need time to heal. Think on that. Just my two cents…
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